Friday, May 22, 2009

THIS IS HOW I LIVE MY LIFE...WHAT'S YOUR CHOICE

Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours or days.
All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else.
Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.
Your grudges, resentments, frustrations and jealousies will finally disappear. So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.
It won’t matter where you came from or what side of the tracks you lived on at the end.
It won’t matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin colour will be irrelevant.
So what will matter? How will the value of your days be measured?
What will matter is not what you bought but what you built, not what you got but what you gave.
What will matter is not your success but your significance.
What will matter is not what you learned but what you taught.
What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example. What will matter is not your competence but your character.
What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when you’re gone.
What will matter is not your memories but the memories of those who loved you.
What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what.
Living a life that matters doesn’t happen by accident.
It’s not a matter of circumstance but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters.
-writer unknown

Friday, May 15, 2009

A TRUE STORY

After a forest fire in Yellowstone National Park, forest rangers began their trek up a mountain to assess the inferno's damage. One ranger found a bird literally petrified into ashes, perched statuesquely on the ground at the base of a tree. Somewhat sickened by the eerie sight, he knocked over the bird with a stick. When he struck it, three tiny chicks scurried from under their mother's wings. The loving mother, keenly aware of the impending disaster, had carried her offspirng to the base of the tree and had gathered them under her wings, instinctively knowing that toxic smoke would soon rise. She could have flown to safety, but had refused to abandon her babies. When the blaze had arrived and the heat had scorched her small body, the mother had remained steadfast. She had been willing to die, so that those under the cover of her wings would live.

Is there a lesson here for you and for me? 

LIFE - AS I SEE IT RIGHT NOW..

There is no human on earth who is free of problems. And I am one such human. 

However, as much as I have experienced life, here is what I have realised. We as humans have a tendency to look at everything, especially our troubles, through a powerful  magnifying glass. And therefore, every small problem we have, seems huge, almost demon-like. If we were to take our problems like a pebble, and hold that pebble right up close to our eyes, it will even cover the sun from our vision. But if we were to hold the same pebble away from our eyes, it is just a small pebble and nothing else. Problems, when viewed in the background and context of our blessings, are mere challenges to be faced and to be overcome; but when we view them in isolation, they seem unsurmountable.

I, for one, am choosing to live my life to the fullest and walk on smiling, despite all the pebbles on my way. And my advice to everyone who wants to take it, is, take these pebbles in your stride, and they shall become your best friends...!!


I SHALL ALWAYS COUNT MY BLESSINGS AND NEVER MY TROUBLES

When I asked God for strength
He gave me difficult situations to face.

When I asked God for brain and brawn
He gave me puzzles in life to solve.

When I asked God for happiness
He showed me some unhappy people.

When I asked God for wealth
He showed me how to work hard.

When I asked God for favours
He showed me opportunities to grab.

When I asked God for peace
He showed me how to help others.

God gave me nothing I wanted
He gave me everything I needed.

-Swami Vivekananda